If you find yourself grappling with a division of power, or a tug between two choices, ask yourself which “feels” like the best route.
If you can’t get clear even then, the best course may be no course. Put the decision on hold if possible, or flip a coin. I don’t say that to be flippant; a coin toss can be useful- your reaction to the “win” can speak volumes.
By late afternoon, solutions may gain greater clarity. Wrap up the day by enjoying the company of like-minded people. Great conversation and connections satisfy the soul.