Even if this is a holiday for you, you may have a strong urge to do something useful, whether it’s gardening, volunteering or honoring the dead. If you don’t, you may find yourself out of sorts by late afternoon.
If this can’t fit in with your day, plan those kinds of activites for tomorrow. Planning in itself can satisfy the urge. Emotions may be hard to articulate in the evening. Keep in mind, not everything we feel has words to express it. Sometimes, the best you can do is get close enough.